Nothing for free is much valued, not even advice

I get how much you want to help them, teach them, stop them from falling in the pit they are putting themselves in because you think they are inviting trouble or you can foresee where this will lead
But can you really save someone who does not want to be saved?
Someone who wants to really take a shot and risk it all?
Someone who is the master of his/ her life
No matter how much you want to save them you can’t
So rather stand by their side in the decisions they take even if you disagree with them
because they are always 2 possibilities even if one is just 0.000001 probable
1. the risk paying off
2. the person failing
So just stay there, they will learn with time, just the way you did but that day isn’t today so they wouldn’t understand you
Apart from this, you could be wrong too so maybe it’s better to let everyone explore and find their own lessons.

“Time teaches you what you refuse to learn from your well-wishers”
-Chitra Divakaruni

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Hello Beautiful!

If anyone asked me what is beauty before I’d definitely say
fair skin
lean body
straight brown hair
fluency in speaking
But
Little did i know that beauty was not defined by majority but by the eyes of the beholder
Little did i know that your sculpted nose is a mark of pride and confidence you hold in yourself
Little did I know that the colour of your skin shows your compassion and a promise to hold my secrets and absorb all negativity
Little did I know that your silky but wavy hair depict the strength you have to hold the worlds together
Little did I know that your eyes trickle wisdom
Little did I know that your lips keep repeating the promise of making this world a better place

-Dear Girlfriend

– Every woman is an epitome of Beauty

Dear Society?

Dear Society,
Thank You for teaching me how losing anything could be so beautiful….

1. Thank You for telling me how I could be more beautiful by LOSING WEIGHT
Because Barbies and Princess don’t come in XL size

2. Thank You for telling me how easily I could please everyone and be their favourite by LOSING MY STANDS AND OPINION
Because a woman with opinion (commonly known as “Bitches”) are nasty and contaminate the society

3. Thank You for telling me how beautiful my skin was but LOSING MY COLOUR or changing it could make people love me more
Because nobody would choose Jasmine over Snow White

4.Thank You for telling me how important it is for me to always be poise and polite because only after LOSING HOW I TRULY FEEL I could be everyone’s favorite
Because Blossom and Bubbles were everyone’s favourite not Buttercup

5. Thank You for telling me that even when the questions change, the answer has to be “YES” as LOSING YOUR RIGHT TO CHOOSE is a step of being “a woman”
Because Medusa was punished for skipping this step
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99999… Thank You for telling me how LOSING MYSELF was a part of change which was constant in nature.

 

From,
You

 

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PC: Bhumika Sharma

Ain’t this too RISKY?

Dear you,
                   Does taking this risk scare you? What about the one you take everyday? Remember that time when you were really exhausted, came back home all tired and fell asleep on the couch? Did that not involve risk of the building falling down? you never know, but does that make you live on ground forever? Everything you do involves risk just the amount of it changes. When that was worth taking why is this not?
TAKE THE RISK, embrace it and wear it like you wear your favourite perfume and even if you fail, still love it because you loved it for once.

-An advice from a father to a daughter

“I love you” she said looking at the mirror

They told me love was how a father loved his daughter
How a mother loved her son
How Jack loved Rose

I wonder why nobody told me how my soul loved my body
How my eyes shed tears when my soul was hurt
How my lips smiled when my soul was happy
How my eyes glittered when my soul shone

I wish I was taught my type of self love stories

                                      -Self love is also romance

Live each day like it’s your last

I often hear people say “We should live each day like it’s our last”
By this they mean we must live freely but isn’t it true that we can live it freely because we know it’s not our last day and we have ample of time? Had we known that it is our last last day would we still have the courage to live it in the same way? Would we still keep the smile of our face and the sparkle in our eyes?
Not everyone is ANAND.


ZINDAGI BAADI HONI CHAHIYE LAMBI NAHI 

                      (One’s Life should be big not long )

MAUT TOH EK PAL HAI

                     (Death is just a moment)

                      -ANAND 


 

PC: Neha Sansare

When they don’t understand you.

Dear you,

There will be times when nobody understands you, but in this time you should not stop believing in yourself. Just because they don’t have the caliber to understand you and your opinions, does not make you wrong. Remember how we blamed out maths textbooks when our answers did not match? That is what they are doing, don’t let them put you down.

You are an ART, some people will understand, appreciate, call you a masterpiece, while some will call it a paper with figures and colours. All you need to know is that you don’t need them to believe in you, all you need is you to have faith in yourself.

If they don’t understand what you say don’t stress your throat by yelling for their convenience rather, just walk away.

 

                              Yours faithfully,

The one who understands you

PC: Neha Sansare

Hey my name is Nettie but people call me WRONG

Dear you,

There will be times when people would work really hard to make you believe that its your mistake, but don’t let them break your spirit I want you to know that you are fine and you’ll always be just because they think you are mistaken does not make you wrong or sick. There are many mouths but not all are worth listening to, so don’t let them make you believe that you are wrong.

You were not born to please everyone because only doormats are capable of doing so. Don’t let them make you believe that magic does not exist just because they feel so, because you know you posses it. Don’t empower them by giving them the control of your feelings, they can’t decide how you are supposed to feel about yourself.

You are a rebel and no rebel was praised by people until history was made. Don’t you ever doubt yourself just because they do so. Don’t be scared you have been alone and hated before, so don’t you worry, little rebel you’ ll survive this too and they’ll soon get tired but I know you won’t.

Yours truthfully,

The rebel in you.

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Is this Love or Menstruation?

Dear Teenage Love,

      Thank you for making me think if menstruation was like love because it caused the same mood swings, cravings and pain like you did but unlike you it made me go through this only once a month, also it comes with an expiration date after which it stops making attempts to come back to me like you did. I shall get over the pain and anxiety caused by it like I did after you were gone.

    Thank you for making me understand real your meaning of love.