The world is a library of people

They say you must not judge a book by its cover
But is it really possible for us to not judge people at all?
Isn’t it important for us to look at people and make an opinion
to keep us away from bad company
Because maybe reading a book and realizing it isn’t good in the last chapters won’t make a lot of difference
But that’s not the same with human beings
Being with a wrong person can be disastrous
Thus,
We must not judge a book by its cover
but we must make a temporary opinion about people
on the basis of their deeds, behavior, vibes, communication, energies, perspective, portrayal, the way they treat others
You can know them better and always laugh upon your 1st draft opinion (which you must keep with yourself until too sure!)
but till you know them, its better you watch out!

Always remember however bad a book is, never spread rumors about it
Maybe the book which you did not like could be someone’s favorite
Let others decide for themselves, you take prudence for yourself and try finding your book!

-Sometimes books with the worst reviews have the best stories to tell!

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Menu



Starter



(this is the time when nobody tells you what to buy and its the same for most of the people from your age group 
                                                                          Price
Doctor                                                               0.00
Astronaut                                                         0.00
Super Hero                                                      0.00
Pilot                                                                   0.00
Teacher                                                            0.00
 

 

[This is an age when your dreams are free but and, there is a lot of happiness and hope]                                                                 


Main Course 



(the time when others start telling you what to order because they have tried it all
more like impose it on you because their own experience is the only absolute truth they know)
                                                                             

                                                                                                                                      

                                                       Price
     Doctor                                 Hardwork
◊   Engineer                                      ”       
     Chartered Accountant               “
     Lawyer                                         “
◊   Pilot                                               “
∇   Artist                                            “
♠ ∇ Chef                                            “
♠∇ Dancer                                         “
◊   IT Professional                            “
∇   Writer                                          “
      Teacher                                       “
♠  Beauty Services                           “
◊   Sportsman                                   “
(as its name suggests) 
◊   Auto Mobile Professional          “
∇   Painter                                          “
♠    Housewife                                   “
∇   Social Worker                             “
                   
  (A tax which you pay on main course will include: breaking of hopes, losing faith, solace, passion, happiness and you get to take home regrets, burden, unhappiness and frustration)

[The Tax in main course is only to be paid by people buying it under other’s influence or pressure]

 


Dessert 



(It is when the decision is been made with or without influence with or without pressure.It is when you have become what you chose to)


These are customised by the customers according to their choice, tastes and preferences



NOTE:These dishes are made with the instructions of the customers
Therefore the chefs shall not be blamed if they do not taste good



* You are going to pay for the dish and not your family or anyone else so make a choice carefully  
* Dishes with this sign ∇ indicate they are spicy and might be too hot to handle for the customer and his family 
* We accept all modes of payment and all types of cuisines 
So the only people whose acceptance would bother you now is the people with you on the table and neighbouring tables
* Dishes with these signs ♠ they are usually served only to women and ◊ these to men   
* All the dishes on other’s tables will always look better but you might not find them that delicious when served to you        



To everyone who think it is the end I want you to know there ain’t an end until you are breathing so if this meal wasn’t good enough buy a new one. You can start from the starters again don’t bother yourself with what the other customers would say we do provide table for one or for many with same appetite and depending on the times you have visited 
BON APPETITE


-If careers were chosen in a restaurant like food


 

Change is the only constant

Change seems easy?
Sometimes its not, actually it never is
Though it is inevitable, it still affects us because we like the stuff we use everyday, we are used to them, we don’t even remember if we like them anymore but you know you’d miss them because they are your daily routine, your comfort zone, leaving them is tough!
We build our comfort home in those things or places. It could be your favourite cafe, blanket, bench or anything.
But we always miss to add this one thing in our list which is the only constant, it has always been with us and it will always be with us It Is CHANGE
So let’s build our comfort home in these changing circumstances, and make them our favourite places!
And see how easy it will become for us to accept change and live with it.

So don’t crib over change, learn to move on

Remember the Old Days in your Beautiful memories forever but don’t let them stop you from making new ones.

This change will come with new opportunities and challenges face them and come out like a true champion

Think of it in this way
A child who hasn’t seen an Autumn would never know what colours look like!

This new year will get new colours and changes some of which you will love, some you might not like but they still are important, like that one colour you hate but still it is necessary to complete the palate and therefore all these changes and new colours will help you paint your Masterpiece

Cherish change
Happy New Year!!!

Anger or PMS?

Hey girl why so angry? are you menstruating?

Dear world,
I am a women and I get angry because like you I have the right to!
1.I am angry because I am a victim of public scrutiny
2. I am angry because my pay is not based on my working abilities but my gender
3. I am angry because I am tired of living upto everybody’s expectations
4. I am angry because I am forced to make sacrifices and make them look like I was made for them
5. I am angry because people judge me more for what I wear than what I am
6. I am angry because I am tired of customising myself according to the needs of people
7. I am angry because I am blamed for everything that goes wrong in the society
8. I am angry because people cant differentiate between me and any other object
9. I am angry because even before I am born people think that I am going to be a hapless and killed in the womb
10. I am angry because I am not allowed to answer questions that are reffered to me
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999 I am angry because people mistake my anger a human emotion for PMS (Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) refers to physical and emotional symptoms that occur in the one to two weeks before a woman’s period)


– Dont mistake my anger for PMS

Bad Liar/Reputation?​

She is real rude
She is humorous humiliating
She is unique fake
She is loved spoilt
She is a self loving self- centered person
She smokes, drinks and parties like you and others is a slut and a brat
She is hard working lucky
She does not justify when we confront her, because she knows you won’t trust her she is guilty

Is everything that glitters is gold ? .
Not everyone with a bad reputation is actually bad.
So you still think she is really nasty, aloof, antagonistic, callous, rude ? .

-People with bad reputations have the best stories to tell

Ignore all hatred and criticism
Live for what you create
and Die protecting it
-Lady Gaga

Breathing

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How many times have you tried to tell someone something they asked you to talk about and when you did, all you got is secret ignorance or emptiness around you?
and when you get angry they asked you to take deep breaths

BUT

How could we not know that breathing could mean more than the process of taking air into and expelling it from the lungs.

It could mean how gracefully you inhale or take in poeples’ opinions and how well do you exhale or let out your reactions to it.
It is when someone comes to you and tells you something you don’t wanna hear or talk about but you still listen and show utmost compassion towards them and then exhale a graceful and compassionate answer
something more welcoming because at the end its you who invited them.

Who are you?

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Three girls by Amrita Sher-Gill

I was always told to check in the dictionary for meaning of words I never understood and therefore I did when I wanted to check what exactly a woman means;

“an adult human female” so why do people always keep saying that a woman is a person who makes sacrifices, who is simple, who is decent, who has no right to speak up or object, who is gullible, who needs to be protected, who is as resilient as water, who is not supposed to take decisions……….
to which I wonder is my dictionary wrong or am I on the wrong page?

To everyone who categorised us.

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You classified and segregated us in types like:

1 the obedient ones:
who no matter what, would never raise her voice against you, the gullible ones

2 the pampered ones:
the ones who expect the same kind of love from her in-laws like her parents

3 the spoilt ones:
the ones who love the self love stories, who love their mind, body, opinion before anyone else’s

4 the slutty ones
the ones who think they have the same freedom as boys do, the ones who are not stopped by night for anything they wanna do

5 the kind ones:
the ones who you can easily be convinced or forced to sacrifice anything even if it is their dream

6 the bizarre ones:
the ones who think age is just a number and who think aging is a concept just for the body not their heart or mind (I LOVE THEM THE MOST – THE TIMELESS BEAUTIES)

7 the pretty ones:
the fair, thin, classy, wears pink and does not apply make up, does not wear glasses ones

8 the intelligent ones:
the ones who can handle all the house work and still perform well in academics and excel at their hobbies too (WHO CARES)

9 the beauty with brains:
they’ re TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE

10 fake ones:
the ones who apply a lot of make up, the ones who think getting ready without occasions and being over dressed is just okay and a matter of their choice
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but little did you know we weren’t old house scrap to be kept in boxes and wrapped .We were all books, while some had musical love stories in them, other had hardcore murder mysteries and you will never know when the OBEDIENT ONES would be done with the silent planning and start executing everything they planned these years, the PAMPERED ONES would accept the difference between parents and in-laws which you showed her and now she does not crave pampering from others, the SPOILT ONES would fall in love again with their own self and this time it will be stronger and forever, SLUTTY ONES would list down all weakness of these patriarchs while she hangouts with them, KIND ONES would again sacrifice but this time it will be with their consent and for them for the first time, BIZARRE ONES would use all their experience they got while aging, the PRETTY ONES whom you made to wear pink in order to be a girl would change their colour to red just like blood, INTELLIGENT ONES would collect all the tools like protractors and knives which she used while excelling at studies and housework and find another hobby this time which they won’t give up for you, BEAUTY WITH BRAIN ONES will show you they come for real and the FAKE ONES would start applying make up but this time not for a class or party but your funeral and then finally they come together to return you all the hatred coated in love which you gave her when she didn’t say a word.

 

–  Even in my most silent days I am a disaster about to occur

Karma is a mirror

Remember that time when things didn’t work out well?
When your plans backfired and you cursed Karma and said “KARMA IS A BITCH!”
How is Karma a bitch if it only gives us back what we do to others?
Aren’t we bitches?
When things go wrong don’t blame karma it just gave you the taste of your own medicine.
Had you been good that day you would have received good and I am sure you would have never praised karma calling it an angel, so don’t blame karma but yourself.

-For every action there is an equal reaction

Dear Nani

The care of a mother
and understanding of a friend
the one who overlooks my flaws and calls them perfection
the one who tells me stories no novels did
the one who held me tight when no one did
the one who taught me how to live for others
the one who protected me like nobody else did
the one who taught me how kitchen can be used to cook love and care
the one who blamed herself for all my mistakes
the one who made me believe in fairytales
the one who loved me more than she loved her daughter
the one who made me a lady
the one who was never partial
the one who accepted me the way I was and cherished it
the one who never made me feel small
the one who showed me how the biggest and strongest thing on earth was her heart
the one whose body had more compassion than blood or cells
the one who was soft as dandelion but in moments of need fierce as fire
the one who is a perfect epitome of balance and modesty
the one who never complained
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the one about whom even after writing pages and pages I will never get enough

The kind of things i tried finding in everyone but even god couldn’t match her kind of love

 

-Your Mini