Failure

Failure is a Motivation in life
it does not pamper you like other people
but it tests you,
hard enough to make you step out of your comfort zone
But failure is a motivation only when you don’t stop after that failure, rather you keep going
So, if life is a mirror
Failure is a broken mirror
The only thing it is useful for is to take a lesson and be more prudent next time
And don’t dwell on it or keep it there for too long
You might step on it and hurt yourself and
bleeding with guilt and regret after a failure
doesn’t help in healing
So the broken mirror, It is just there to teach you a lesson you must learn
After which you must clean it up and focus on making a new mirror with old lessons!

It makes the success taste so much better!!

-at times there’s nothing like a mosaic painting

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I am me

Who are you?
I am Me

And what’s so special about it?
Everything! Because unlike everyone I don’t try to be someone I am not,
Unlike everyone I am not scared of being myself, even if that means being extremely ordinary, boring, simple,  ……….
Unlike everyone I don’t say stuff I don’t mean.
I don’t do things which I do not find agreeable
I am not perfect, I am work-in-progress
I need to learn more, but will there ever be an end to the thirst?
God forbid if that thirst dies what will we live for?
Thus, even in days when I think I am lagging behind, I remind myself
That I have all the time in the world
I don’t mind working slowly and taking breaks
Sleeping before the finishing line wouldn’t make a lot of difference either
It’s no Race
Even if it is, the finishing line is invisible

There are days I work hard to accomplish goals
There are days I spend doing nothing progressive
There are days I feel I am lagging but I don’t let this take over me
There are days the metaphorical speeches scare me
because I don’t fit in the list
I am neither a wave nor an ocean
I am neither a lion nor a fox

But who said I had to be like them?
Those metaphorical creatures or other accomplished men of this world
I said it before, I am me
And that’s good enough for me to be motivated again

There are days I fail at doing anything that I just talked above
but that doesn’t stop me from picking right from where I stopped the last time
Because I am everything someone else wants to be
Because I am different because different is me

So if you’re you, be delighted for it, because that’s rare
Not all stones can get hit by waves and still keep their shape in the river!

-Get influenced inspired

Measuring love on the scale of Hatred

It is alright to have beliefs different from that of others, it is normal to like or love certain things but haven’t we chosen the path of hatred to show our love?
Haven’t we chosen the path of offending and disrespecting other people’s choices to show our love to what we love?

Women trying to show their support for the feminist movement and making the trolling of men a part of the movement
Millennials mocking the old school approach to supporting their trends
People supporting one religion by offending other religions to show their loyalty towards theirs
People becoming chauvinist for showing patriotism

and a lot more

YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO LOVE ANYTHING
AND IT NEED NOT COME WITH  HATRED FOR OTHER THINGS

Loving something does not put you on a war with all the other things in the world
You could love yourself without hating others
This isn’t a war against anyone
this is about preferences and choices, you could enjoy your freedom without stopping others enjoying theirs

you could support women and feminism without making it against the men
where you could choose white without belittling the tan and dark skin
where you could love the contemporaries without hating the classics
where you could love trendy clothes without mocking people who are comfortable with their not so trendy clothes
you can live in peace without disturbing other’s peace
where you could support one person’s ideologies without criticising the rest
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where you could love yourself without hating others

Also,  not everyone is like that!

some people like what they like and do not hate other things
There are women supporting feminism and they don’t hate all men
There are people who prefer classics but do not detest the contemporaries
There are people who like football and do not hate cricket
and this is as simple as that

Don’t complicate it

and unless somebody tells you about their hatred do not assume they hate all the other things

 

-I love tea and coffee!
I love Captain America and Iron man!
I LOVE YOU and MYSELF!

Boats

 

IMG-20190505-WA0028.jpgA boat is meant to sail
anchors don’t keep her happy,
they do keep her safe, but then
there is always a time when they need to let go of her
it hurts, but you know what it is like watching someone you love happy?
That right there is happiness
and you know what happens if the anchors are never let gone
and she never sails?
she will rust in a corner and that my friend is not the meaning of keeping her safe!
Maybe you think she is not ready but is it really her not ready for a sail
or is it you not ready to let her go?
She has sailed this far and found her way to you, she will find her way again
You just need to let go of her
Because the truth is she must sail (with or without your consent!)

Life gives us the chances,
you will find new boats ,
and when they come to you, embrace them
but don’t compare them to her
because they are not her,
they don’t need to be her

She can always be your favourite
but accept other boats as well
because you never know what time has for you
and you never know, if she might come to you again
and this extra moment which you might get without any expectations of having it,
will be special, you will want it!
But you see you will not need it!

So let the boat sail
and find its way through the waves
It will make its destiny like every other boat out there
and that journey what she makes in the waves of freedom
will always remind her of your love and care

-Only know you love her when you let her go!

It’s Just a phase, isn’t it?

There will always be a time when things aren’t right
People don’t count on you
They think your time is over
or Maybe it’s not your thing

Amidst all this,
People stop expecting from you
People also call it the doom

But It should rather be called the NO BURDEN PHASE
Because people have no expectations from you
there’s no performance pressure
You can silently work and be the underdog
while others try to get rid of the burden of expectations (that’s on them now).

It’s your time to work harder and laze around
Think more, brainstorm and prepare yourself
to give your best shot at your opportunity, conquer it
and come again under people’s expectations
yet again to become a part of their scrutiny list
to step in the burden phase again
So somebody else could get a chance to be in the NO BURDEN PHASE.

The expectations seem very attractive at the start when it gets you all the attention
But with time it gets heavier, so
Do not let people’s expectations stop you
They are like fake friends, they come and go with good times
Don’t let them bother you

-It’s just a phase cycle

Dear Housewife

To the dear lady who is always portrayed to be the one sitting in front of a TV set and being jobless

I am sorry,
that people don’t respect what you do
that your kids ask you the question of what have you done?
That you aren’t their hero and they constantly compare you to their father
They fail to understand your resilience and call you weak
That it took years for people to realise that you are the house maker
That the only place they talk about you is tv series where they show you as a person whose only stress is the perfect pie you cook and the colour of the tablecloth
That even after knowing the kind of hard work you do, you are always portrayed as a lady with pitch-perfect makeup
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let me tell you, that you are way more than what they show you to be
And
Don’t compare yourself to the working women who play your roles on tv, you don’t need to worry about sheets, laundry and your looks

BUT

There are always exceptions, aren’t there?
The ones who know your importance
The ones who treat you well
The ones who don’t expect you to be a superhuman
and the ones who accept you as who you are
And this women’s day Let’s not just talk about the women but also the men who understand women in the time of need
Who celebrate Women’s Day every day

– A party is nothing without the special ones

 

 

 

 

Video Games

Played a video game before?
Former levels being Easy to engage you and the latter ones being tough,
but you are still stuck to it because we love challenges
So is life
it will get burdensome
but you will clear these levels
maybe not right now, after the break but that’s happening for sure
So do not think of quitting it
this game of life cannot be uninstalled
But can be triumphed

We could be Heroes

Do we ever look at comedy movies and feel like being a part of it?
No
But we do wish to be a part of action and
drama movies because
we want to be a hero
we want to fight and conquer our problems
Life gives you problems to hero them

HERO IT

 

-You are the avenger of your life

Today

How easily have we ignored our today
to make our tomorrow special and rewarding,
when we know that today is what builds our tomorrow and the day after
today the mistakes you make, the opportunities you grab
are the one’s which will make or break you!

How easily have we tricked ourselves to believe that tomorrow is more important that Today
When we know unlike today, tomorrow is not even promised

How easily have we let our today slip out of our hands
without realising they are our tomorrows from the past!

How easily have we fooled ourselves into believing that sacrificing today
will get us our tomorrow which we always dreamt of
when we know that today is all we have and tomorrow will never come!

How easily are we sowing the seeds of unhappiness today and hoping that
tomorrow will turn them into an orchard of Happiness!

-How easily have we wasted all our lives in this game of Today or Tomorrow

Career Buffet!


Menu



Starter



(this is the time when nobody tells you what to buy and its the same for most of the people from your age group 
                                                                          Price
Doctor                                                               0.00
Astronaut                                                         0.00
Super Hero                                                      0.00
Pilot                                                                   0.00
Teacher                                                            0.00
 

 

[This is an age when your dreams are free but and, there is a lot of happiness and hope]                                                                 


Main Course 



(the time when others start telling you what to order because they have tried it all
more like impose it on you because their own experience is the only absolute truth they know)
                                                                             

                                                                                                                                      

                                                       Price
     Doctor                                 Hardwork
◊   Engineer                                      ”       
     Chartered Accountant               “
     Lawyer                                         “
◊   Pilot                                               “
∇   Artist                                            “
♠ ∇ Chef                                            “
♠∇ Dancer                                         “
◊   IT Professional                            “
∇   Writer                                          “
      Teacher                                       “
♠  Beauty Services                           “
◊   Sportsman                                   “
(as its name suggests) 
◊   Auto Mobile Professional          “
∇   Painter                                          “
♠    Housewife                                   “
∇   Social Worker                             “
                   
  (A tax which you pay on main course will include: breaking of hopes, losing faith, solace, passion, happiness and you get to take home regrets, burden, unhappiness and frustration)

[The Tax in main course is only to be paid by people buying it under other’s influence or pressure]

 


Dessert 



(It is when the decision is been made with or without influence with or without pressure.It is when you have become what you chose to)


These are customised by the customers according to their choice, tastes and preferences



NOTE:These dishes are made with the instructions of the customers
Therefore the chefs shall not be blamed if they do not taste good



* You are going to pay for the dish and not your family or anyone else so make a choice carefully  
* Dishes with this sign ∇ indicate they are spicy and might be too hot to handle for the customer and his family 
* We accept all modes of payment and all types of cuisines 
So the only people whose acceptance would bother you now is the people with you on the table and neighbouring tables
* Dishes with these signs ♠ they are usually served only to women and ◊ these to men   
* All the dishes on other’s tables will always look better but you might not find them that delicious when served to you        



To everyone who think it is the end I want you to know there ain’t an end until you are breathing so if this meal wasn’t good enough buy a new one. You can start from the starters again don’t bother yourself with what the other customers would say we do provide table for one or for many with same appetite and depending on the times you have visited 
BON APPETITE


-If careers were chosen in a restaurant like food