Anger or PMS?

Hey girl why so angry? are you menstruating?

Dear world,
I am a women and I get angry because like you I have the right to!
1.I am angry because I am a victim of public scrutiny
2. I am angry because my pay is not based on my working abilities but my gender
3. I am angry because I am tired of living upto everybody’s expectations
4. I am angry because I am forced to make sacrifices and make them look like I was made for them
5. I am angry because people judge me more for what I wear than what I am
6. I am angry because I am tired of customising myself according to the needs of people
7. I am angry because I am blamed for everything that goes wrong in the society
8. I am angry because people cant differentiate between me and any other object
9. I am angry because even before I am born people think that I am going to be a hapless and killed in the womb
10. I am angry because I am not allowed to answer questions that are reffered to me
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999 I am angry because people mistake my anger a human emotion for PMS (Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) refers to physical and emotional symptoms that occur in the one to two weeks before a woman’s period)


– Dont mistake my anger for PMS

Bad Liar/Reputation?​

She is real rude
She is humorous humiliating
She is unique fake
She is loved spoilt
She is a self loving self- centered person
She smokes, drinks and parties like you and others is a slut and a brat
She is hard working lucky
She does not justify when we confront her, because she knows you won’t trust her she is guilty

Is everything that glitters is gold ? .
Not everyone with a bad reputation is actually bad.
So you still think she is really nasty, aloof, antagonistic, callous, rude ? .

-People with bad reputations have the best stories to tell

Ignore all hatred and criticism
Live for what you create
and Die protecting it
-Lady Gaga

MEN∝WOMEN

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Dear men who find it girly and women who find it attention seeking,

A feminist is “a person who believes in the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes (Yes it’s FEMINISM), and tries to achieve equal opportunities and treatment for women”. It is not something that is referred only for women or something only women can become, it is an epicene or unisex concept just like your H&M hoodies, it will suit you too, at least try it once before you judge it for being too girly. It is something we need to work together for.
It is not for him or her it is for us.
This will help us achieve better definitions and something more than girly or manly,

When we will be classified only in two parts humane or inhumane,
Where there will be no pressure to act in a particular manner to be a part of gender race,
Where women and strength, and men and emotions won’t be ironical,

Where my hard work would determine my pay and not my gender,
Where my dominating nature would be determined by my genes and not my gender,
Where my body won’t signify softness, cowardice and naive,
Where women will have equal rights and opportunities as men
Where men will get equal credit and empathy as women,

Into that heaven of freedom, my Father, let my country awake.

 

 

Who are you?

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Three girls by Amrita Sher-Gill

I was always told to check in the dictionary for meaning of words I never understood and therefore I did when I wanted to check what exactly a woman means;

“an adult human female” so why do people always keep saying that a woman is a person who makes sacrifices, who is simple, who is decent, who has no right to speak up or object, who is gullible, who needs to be protected, who is as resilient as water, who is not supposed to take decisions……….
to which I wonder is my dictionary wrong or am I on the wrong page?

To everyone who categorised us.

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You classified and segregated us in types like:

1 the obedient ones:
who no matter what, would never raise her voice against you, the gullible ones

2 the pampered ones:
the ones who expect the same kind of love from her in-laws like her parents

3 the spoilt ones:
the ones who love the self love stories, who love their mind, body, opinion before anyone else’s

4 the slutty ones
the ones who think they have the same freedom as boys do, the ones who are not stopped by night for anything they wanna do

5 the kind ones:
the ones who you can easily be convinced or forced to sacrifice anything even if it is their dream

6 the bizarre ones:
the ones who think age is just a number and who think aging is a concept just for the body not their heart or mind (I LOVE THEM THE MOST – THE TIMELESS BEAUTIES)

7 the pretty ones:
the fair, thin, classy, wears pink and does not apply make up, does not wear glasses ones

8 the intelligent ones:
the ones who can handle all the house work and still perform well in academics and excel at their hobbies too (WHO CARES)

9 the beauty with brains:
they’ re TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE

10 fake ones:
the ones who apply a lot of make up, the ones who think getting ready without occasions and being over dressed is just okay and a matter of their choice
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but little did you know we weren’t old house scrap to be kept in boxes and wrapped .We were all books, while some had musical love stories in them, other had hardcore murder mysteries and you will never know when the OBEDIENT ONES would be done with the silent planning and start executing everything they planned these years, the PAMPERED ONES would accept the difference between parents and in-laws which you showed her and now she does not crave pampering from others, the SPOILT ONES would fall in love again with their own self and this time it will be stronger and forever, SLUTTY ONES would list down all weakness of these patriarchs while she hangouts with them, KIND ONES would again sacrifice but this time it will be with their consent and for them for the first time, BIZARRE ONES would use all their experience they got while aging, the PRETTY ONES whom you made to wear pink in order to be a girl would change their colour to red just like blood, INTELLIGENT ONES would collect all the tools like protractors and knives which she used while excelling at studies and housework and find another hobby this time which they won’t give up for you, BEAUTY WITH BRAIN ONES will show you they come for real and the FAKE ONES would start applying make up but this time not for a class or party but your funeral and then finally they come together to return you all the hatred coated in love which you gave her when she didn’t say a word.

 

–  Even in my most silent days I am a disaster about to occur

Hello Beautiful!

If anyone asked me what is beauty before I’d definitely say
fair skin
lean body
straight brown hair
fluency in speaking
But
Little did i know that beauty was not defined by majority but by the eyes of the beholder
Little did i know that your sculpted nose is a mark of pride and confidence you hold in yourself
Little did I know that the colour of your skin shows your compassion and a promise to hold my secrets and absorb all negativity
Little did I know that your silky but wavy hair depict the strength you have to hold the worlds together
Little did I know that your eyes trickle wisdom
Little did I know that your lips keep repeating the promise of making this world a better place

-Dear Girlfriend

– Every woman is an epitome of Beauty

Dear Society?

Dear Society,
Thank You for teaching me how losing anything could be so beautiful….

1. Thank You for telling me how I could be more beautiful by LOSING WEIGHT
Because Barbies and Princess don’t come in XL size

2. Thank You for telling me how easily I could please everyone and be their favourite by LOSING MY STANDS AND OPINION
Because a woman with opinion (commonly known as “Bitches”) are nasty and contaminate the society

3. Thank You for telling me how beautiful my skin was but LOSING MY COLOUR or changing it could make people love me more
Because nobody would choose Jasmine over Snow White

4.Thank You for telling me how important it is for me to always be poise and polite because only after LOSING HOW I TRULY FEEL I could be everyone’s favorite
Because Blossom and Bubbles were everyone’s favourite not Buttercup

5. Thank You for telling me that even when the questions change, the answer has to be “YES” as LOSING YOUR RIGHT TO CHOOSE is a step of being “a woman”
Because Medusa was punished for skipping this step
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99999… Thank You for telling me how LOSING MYSELF was a part of change which was constant in nature.

 

From,
You

 

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PC: Bhumika Sharma

Hey my name is Nettie but people call me WRONG

Dear you,

There will be times when people would work really hard to make you believe that its your mistake, but don’t let them break your spirit I want you to know that you are fine and you’ll always be just because they think you are mistaken does not make you wrong or sick. There are many mouths but not all are worth listening to, so don’t let them make you believe that you are wrong.

You were not born to please everyone because only doormats are capable of doing so. Don’t let them make you believe that magic does not exist just because they feel so, because you know you posses it. Don’t empower them by giving them the control of your feelings, they can’t decide how you are supposed to feel about yourself.

You are a rebel and no rebel was praised by people until history was made. Don’t you ever doubt yourself just because they do so. Don’t be scared you have been alone and hated before, so don’t you worry, little rebel you’ ll survive this too and they’ll soon get tired but I know you won’t.

Yours truthfully,

The rebel in you.

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Is this Love or Menstruation?

Dear Teenage Love,

      Thank you for making me think if menstruation was like love because it caused the same mood swings, cravings and pain like you did but unlike you it made me go through this only once a month, also it comes with an expiration date after which it stops making attempts to come back to me like you did. I shall get over the pain and anxiety caused by it like I did after you were gone.

    Thank you for making me understand real your meaning of love.